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A Parent Ponders Her Child Discovering What She Loves To Do

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Over at her blog, Princess Polymath, software engineer extraordinaire Kirsten Jones thinks aloud about her work life and the one her daughter will discover. Kirsten has built some amazing software magic (I had the pleasure I working alongside her at Socialtext), and now helps engineers extend the Linkedin platform. Early on she learned, by happenstance, that she likes to make information more clear and unnecessary manual tasks go away. But will her daughter like the same?

I’ve been having a lot of discussions with my daughter about what she wants to do for her “job” when she “grows up”. She’s 14 now, at that age where she needs to start putting some focus and attention on how she’ll feed herself once she’s no longer a kid. She’s an amazing person, who loves to do many things at a time (marching band, professional Shakespeare, venture scouts, role playing games, art…) and I know there are lots of jobs she’d just love – and many that she would really detest. I, of course, think she would love my job because it is perfect for me in every way and she shares my genetic code, but really… no.

As an awesome parent, Kirsten already shows she doesn’t get trapped where many do — believing there’s just one thing a person might love doing. There are so many each of us will fall for. Fortunately for her daughter, she’s also not holding out for the offspring to be replicas. Go Mom.

She currently thinks she really wants to be an animator at Pixar. The girl is an amazing artist, don’t get me wrong, but she gets frustrated by the indirectness of computer art – and I’m not sure she’d really enjoy the demanding precision of such an endeavor.

Everyone starts with an inkling. Some spark. Usually many sparks. Then they’re faced with the challenge of learning more about each, and deciding which ones to pursue more (this is where Daily Endeavor is working to help).

But really, I don’t care what she does. I just don’t want her to do a job she hates. I’ve done that, even things I was particular fantastic at (typing title policies at an insurance company) and the entirety of your life is really dragged down when you do a job you dislike.

Amen, sister.

So, how to help my daughter? I’m glad she doesn’t have the mindset I had in high school where you were supposed to breathlessly rush through all 16 years of el-hi-university and then off you go to work without stopping to consider where you were going. I’d love her to take a year or a few after high school to wander around and just be young. She’s studying Japanese, and while I know that at just-about-6-feet she’ll stick out there, I would love her to spend a year in Japan learning about their culture. I envy her this freedom, but can’t wait to see what she does with it.

From where I’m sitting, this is one fortunate daughter. Here’s a Mom who understands there’s no more direct path to discovering what her daughter wants from her work life than iterating. In getting started, her daughter could use inputs on the kinds of jobs that exist and social proof around what to believe, so that’s one of the places we hope to help out.

How the Resume is Being Replaced…by You

What hiring managers use as your “resume” is changing. It’s becoming less backward-looking and more about the present. It’s not just where you’ve worked, it’s a deeper look into you. Very quickly, it’s becoming the conversations you’re in and what you have to say. If they can find you, the person considering you wants to know: what are you really into?

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Why the Resume Exists

While most people think of resumes as something indispensable for job seekers, it’s in fact the hiring managers who initiated and have come to depend on them.

As originally conceived, the resume played a critical role for a hiring manager — a sorting mechanism for their time. The resume does not determine whether someone should be hired. The utility of a resume is as a filter. A resume answers whether a person should be considered — Is this person worth spending more time on?

The resume excels at being the quick look in the rear-view mirror. We all know it well — it’s a list of employment, usually full-time. Within that skeleton, there are three types of information that a hiring manager can use to sort people into worth-more-time or not.

  • Area of work (subfield experience, functional expertise)
  • Reputation of what you worked on (company, project)
  • Results (numbers, measures)

In other words, resumes are a short-hand for the arc of a story. They answer in brief: What did you do? With who? How did it work out?

If you’re considering someone for a team, and you know nothing about them yet, it’s easy to see the utility of a resume. It provides an initial reference point for comparison. It can start to give a sense of patterns over time. It can begin to answer the amount of growth required of the person in order for them to thrive in the new role.

What Hiring Managers Really Want to Know

Hiring managers face two hard problems that resumes can’t wholly solve:

  1. they need to discover talent, and
  2. they need to distinguish between them once they’ve found them.

Since they’ve been around, resumes have always been necessary but not sufficient on both counts.

Besides the most well-known complaints (easy to spoof, keywords are grossly inadequate, they’re free to replicate so thousands can show up for an open job), resumes have always had structural limitations in the questions they can quickly answer. After getting a historical baseline, hiring managers have filled the gaps in other (time-intensive) ways, usually through interviews and references.

So if you were going to make a hiring manager’s job easier for them, let’s figure out: what else do they want to know? (Or better, put yourself in their shoes — what else would you want to know if you’re considering someone to join your team?)

Even more helpful than the potential hire’s full-time role 3 or 10 years ago, when distinguishing candidates TODAY it’s immensely helpful to know what they’re really into right now. Where someone is investing their attention now is the best proxy for what truly motivates them, and as a result, a more distinctive predictor of whether they might thrive in the specific role at hand.

Think: what is this person so into that they’d talk about it even if they weren’t getting paid? What’s something either they’re learning quickly or teach a lot about? Hiring managers are looking for a fast and reliable way to gauge a candidate’s intrinsic motivation.

Current genuine interest is not the only input for a hiring decision, but it’s a huge one. Current genuine interest fuels a person’s willingness to expend the real effort required to grow and get the hard work done. It also helps signal what else — people and insights — they can bring to the table.

Beyond the historical list that a resume provides, hiring managers want to know:

  • What are you genuinely interested in?
  • What have you learned about it lately?
  • Who are you learning from (and who’s learning from you)?
  • How fast do you learn? Is it superficial or is there clear-thinking that’s leading to a point of view?

The hiring manager faces the needle in the haystack problem — and if you want to be readily hired, part of your job is to help them solve it. They’re trying to find a very specific person for a very specific role. Put another way, once they find you, the person considering you for a job is trying to discover if what you’re really into is what they really need.

As a job seeker, your job is to help make your answers to these questions as easily discoverable as possible. Your resume, built for a different purpose in a different era, isn’t going to get you there. Here’s what will: showcasing what you know, a few sentences at a time, around a very specific job (i.e. in a way that makes it easy for hiring managers to find you).

Remember, hiring managers are awash in a sea of resumes. They’re trying to separate the wheat from the chaff — they want to discover the few bits you’ve said online that are relevant to their open role without wading through the noise of all the other conversations you’re in. They want to quickly see who’s sharp at being an analyst in management consulting or doing curriculum development for new teacher development.

This is by the way precisely how Daily Endeavor and our partners can help you. At Daily Endeavor you can showcase what you know.

The main question for you: what have you done recently to make your interests and insights discoverable for hiring managers with a very specific job in mind?

How to Discover Careers You Never Knew Existed

I had the real pleasure today of chatting with Lindsey Pollak over on her MyPath BlogTalkRadio Show. Lindsey of course is one of the central (& IMHO one of the best) voices describing career and workplace issues for Gen Y (see e.g. Getting from College to Career). She’s also recently been working with LinkedIn as they start to roll out tools for students.

In the short podcast (10 min) we cover why it’s so hard today to learn about the jobs that are out there and some of the more interesting ones. My favorite question is when she asks “Did you struggle at all?” to which the answer is definitely Yes. Interviews can so often be sterile and she makes it human.

Here’s the clip:

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Waiting For Superman

Tens of thousands of people in the US dream of going into education. Hundreds of thousands want to see the education system improve. After this movie, I hope, that number will be in the millions.

On Daily Endeavor, Education is the #1 most requested area to learn more about. The top most requested job is currently Speech Pathology in Public Kindergarten.

Who do you know that can help the people dreaming about becoming a speech pathologist learn more about it?

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Ask a Different Question

How many times have you heard the question “What do you want to do?” More often than not the person asking wants to help. It seems a friendly enough question: it’s an expression of interest in the other person, it’s asking vs. assuming, it’s forward looking, it’s an invitation to talk more.

So why do so many people fill with dread when they’re asked? My opinion: it’s nearly impossible to answer. It’s not as impossible as the utopian “What do you see yourself doing in 20 years?” but it’s well on its way.

For many, the question they hear is: “What’s the one thing you want to do?” or “What do you want to do with your life?” You mean, the rest of my life? It’s an awkward position to be put in. You either need to skirt around the truth by stating there’s only one conceivable thing you want to do for the next 70 years which may put a big dent in your credibility, or if you don’t know, then you look shallow, unprepared, or even weak by not having a genuine answer to such an important personal question.

Awkward. It’s possible the person is trying to test you, but most often it’s someone trying to be friendly, someone who really wants to see you find it, whatever it is. In fact that someone may be you, asking yourself for the umpteenth time.

Ask a different question. The direction is right, but the framing is wrong. Instead of going for certainty, lower the bar a bit.

What do you think you want to do?

This seemingly small change acknowledges you’re a warm-blooded person with multiple (if not disparate and conflicting) interests, and gives you space to be intrigued by something, but not wed to it.

Then put the drop on the forever thing. Move the horizon to something much closer that you can actually picture and act on. Two years out is about as far as I can picture, and truthfully it’s already pretty blurry by that point. Continuing to re-frame, it looks like:

Over the next two years, what do you think you want to do?

For getting stuff done, two weeks is a much better period to have a clear line-of-sight. The problem with two weeks though is it’s hard to do anything that really stretches you; it’s a tactical block of time. If you’re thinking about a full-time role as the next step in your work life, a two year horizon gives you enough room to start to think big and has the benefit of being a period of time that hiring firms know how to speak.

Sometimes though, even this question is still too open-ended to be able to answer. The canvas can feel too blank. The implied question can still often be “What job do you want to do?” You and I both know life is so much bigger than a job. I find It’s easier to answer a question about an idea, an interest, a way of doing things, or a result. In other words, think about what else you’d like to include in your growing reputation.

Over the next two years, what do you want to be better known for?

Now that’s a question you can sink your teeth into. For example:

  • I’d like to be better known for my real estate deal analysis prowess
  • I’d like to be better known for my open source code
  • I’d like to be better known for my growing microfinance expertise
  • I’d like to be better known for closing big sales
  • I’d like to be better known for describing our cleantech future
  • I’d like to be better known for enabling local eyewitness reporting to flourish

This form of the question is not a 100% solution; it’s simply one step along the way. Nonetheless, I’ve found working with folks that it’s a good way to break the logjam of beginning to think about what next. What do you think?

David Byrne: A Time to Reflect

Amidst the upheaval and real economic uncertainty, some people are asking the big questions that often get swept under the rug in go-go times. Questions like: what’s important to me?

Today Mark Hurst’s Good Experience newsletter arrived with a great pull-quote from David Byrne on this very topic. From Mark’s column:

Finally, for more listening: throughout the month of March, David Byrne streams old school gospel. He writes (and I agree):

Byrne…

With the economy and people’s finances in free fall, this is a time when many of us pause to reassess our values — what is important to us, what really matters and how we might restructure our lives to reflect those values. …

Whether you believe in the geezer upstairs or not, you might enjoy these tunes. They’re also the structural foundation upon which a lot of popular music was built — a strong foundation, I might add.

http://www.davidbyrne.com/radio/index.php

It’s the line in the middle that I hear people asking more and more:

what is important to us, what really matters and how we might restructure our lives to reflect those values….

The opportunity cost has never been lower to explore what might be right for you. It’s great to see people doing it.

Doing What You Love: Kate Winslet

Few careers are on display as much as an actor’s when they gain traction. As the audience, we don’t have visibility into the Gladwellian hours that are poured into each role, but we do see the outcome of their work, and how their work changes over time, much moreso than most others.

Kate Winslet has been getting traction for a while now. Peer recognition, in the form of nominations and actual awards, has been active for her at the highest levels for over ten years.

Sometimes you can spot when people truly are doing something they love — they enjoy their craft visibly, they excel in ways that no one else seems to be doing, they attract people who want to work with them. And sometimes, in addition to these, they just plain come out and say it, like Kate Winslet did at the Oscars this week:

And I am so lucky to have a wonderful husband and two beautiful children who let me do what I love and who love me just the way that I am.

Place Kate Winslet in the group of people who discovered her way into doing what she loves, and has had the support required to get there.

Doing What You Love: Jessica Jackley Flannery

Instant flashes of insight and overnight success are often a product years of exploring and listening. The important bit is having the self-awareness that a search for what you want to do in the world is indeed underway and actively making observations about it.

Jessica Jackley Flannery’s story is an impressive illustration of someone sharp pursuing their own path, even when all the steps were not visible.

In the Stanford Social Innovation Review article “How I Became a Social Entrepreneur”, we learn Jessica co-founded Kiva, the first peer-to-peer microlending Web site, and believes that microfinance, relationships, and stories are powerful tools for change. She’s right.

Because she did a great job of looking back on her path, we can also see some of the moments that led up to her making the leap:

I remember first hearing the term “social entrepreneurship” in a lecture…I was instantly intrigued. I wanted to be a social entrepreneur!..But doing what, exactly? I had no idea. The motivation, values, and energy were all there, but the specific context was missing. This was a problem…I felt like someone who…dreamt of going to the Olympics but hadn’t chosen a sport…So my task became choosing a context, and finding my one, specific mission.

She goes on to provide some really solid advice that’s worth following:

Learn: Read, research, write, etc. Go to lectures. Absorb whatever you can on the topics that interest you. Get an idea of what the issues are. Take a class or just make up your own little reading lists and assignments if you love structure.

Listen: Reach out to a real, specific, human being who could be your “customer” (someone whose problems you want to understand, and who you’d like to serve by addressing those problems). Listen very carefully. Learn as much as you can. Then, reach out to another person, then another, then another. (Read Paul Polak’s amazing book, Out of Poverty, for much more on this concept!)

Ask: As you start to amass questions and can’t find the answers yourself, reach out to people who might. Get their opinions, their insight, their advice. Learn how their organizations work, what problems they face, what challenges and successes they’ve had. A special note: There are many ways to be entrepreneurial and create significant social change without starting your own organization. Sometimes you can be more effective at doing the specific thing you want to do in the world by joining an existing group or project, and revolutionizing from within.

Jump: At a certain point, you just need to start pursuing what resonates with you. Follow it as best you can, wherever it leads. It’s OK if you don’t know what the next five steps are. It’s enough to take one step in the direction of your interest. Sometimes you can only find the second step after you’ve taken the first one.

Keep Dreaming: Kiva represents my wildest dream of what I wanted to do in the world. And it’s happening! I couldn’t be more thankful for this. But something else is happening too: The faster Kiva goes, the more it grows, and the more I’m convinced that other great changes are possible in the world. I hope never to stop dreaming, preparing, and being ready to see what’s next.

Place Jessica Jackley Flannery in the group of people who discovered her way into doing what she loves.

Doing What You Love: Ernest Hemingway

How do you know if you’re on track toward doing something that you love? One of the best indicators is whether you’re looking forward to getting in there for the next day/session/read/write/etc. Looking forward to something of course doesn’t mean it will be easy or pure joy. Plenty of people have moments of anticipation for simply getting through the hard part, if only for continuing on toward their goal (taking the Bar exam, for example).

Nevertheless, there are some strides that people hit where looking forward is an expectation of doing something that truly turns you on. This is not dissimilar to Mihály Csíkszentmihályi’s work on flow.

As I was reading Daily Routines‘ posts, the one on Ernest Hemingway struck me as an illustration of exactly this feeling.

You write until you come to a place where you still have your juice and you know what will happen next and you stop and try to live through until the next day when you hit it again…nothing means anything until the next day when you do it again. It is the wait until the next day that is hard to get through.

Put Hemingway in the group of people who discovered his way into doing what he loved.

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